I’m always receiving poems and poetry from others. Sometimes articles such as this one. I found it in my mail this morning, I thought I would share it with you all since it’s the start of the month of love. I thought it was interesting. It’s strongly written but it’s most definitely true.
Here’s the thing about good hearted people. Most people don’t like them because let’s face it. They are better than most of us and shows us for who we truly are. They accept our excuses no matter how lame they are and even gives you excuses when you don’t explain yourself. They easily give us the benefit of doubt. No questions asked.
With a good hearted person there are no lies and pretense. They are truthful with you and hope you do the same but in most cases you won’t for you take them for a sap.
Most often than not, the explanation you give is that you simply don’t care. They accept apologies you don’t give. They see the best in you when you don’t need or want them to. At your worst, they lift you up, even if it means putting their own priorities aside. They are never too busy for you. They make time for you even when you don’t make it for them. They don’t ask why not?
But you may wonder why they are the most caring, sensitive people? You wonder why they are willing to give so much of themselves with no expectations in return. You wonder why their existence is not so essential to your well-being? It’s because they accept the love they think they deserve not that which they are due. It’s because they don’t make you work hard for the love and attention they gives you. They gives it unconditionally without you giving it the same. Many of us talks about unconditional love but very few are willing to give it.
They accepts the love they think they have earned from you, and you accept the love you think you are entitled to.
Some knows people like this and do not know how blessed they are. They thinks the person is gullible and will always be there. They think the person can not find someone else to bestow their affection and attention upon. But there are approximately 1,000 rotten, selfish people to 1 good hearted person so do the math. They will find another you. The problem is you won’t find another them.
So let me tell you something. One day they are going to get tired. They are going to wake up and realize you aren’t worth it and I warn you to dearly fear the day when a good heart gives up on you.
Many walks around saying they are sad. But if you should only look back in their lives you probably would see where they once had the loyalty of a good hearted person but abused it. For our skies don’t become gray out of nowhere? Our sunshine doesn’t allow the darkness to take over for no reason. A good heart doesn’t turn cold unless it’s has been treated with coldness for a while.
Good hearted people are far and few in-between, if you find one. Cherish them. Make the time for them. Don’t give them up for someone you think that is better. They may not be the most exciting people in the world but exciting people are usually nothing but trouble and heart aches. Most are unstable and unpredictable whereas a good hearted person is in your corner until the end. Don’t let someone else come in and steal your good hearted person because there are 999 other people out there looking for one. Know the worth of what you have because only a fool can not see the value in a heart of gold.