Is 25 Things Moms Hope Don’t Happen for the Holidays somewhat like “Bad Moms”?

I was asked this question yesterday. Is 25 Things Moms Hope Don’t Happen for the Holidays like the movie, “Bad Moms”? I always try to answer a question to the best of my ability. I don’t know. I haven’t seen the movie “Bad Moms”.

25 Things Moms hope don’t happen for the Holidays is a comedic novella but yet serious review of what expected of mothers during the holidays and throughout the year. It’s oftentimes isn’t in the realistic guideline of motherhood. It’s more like a what one would expect or order of a serf or servant.  A mother or wife is not the family’s servant. She is the heart of every family.  But that’s the common norm that she is the serf of the family. I said serf because a serf was much like a slave. Indented to the land for life.

To her family she’s a nurturer, a caretaker, and a source of unconditional love but it doesn’t means she doesn’t love her family because she correct them on their errors. It doesn’t mean she doesn’t love you because she make you pitch in on the chores.

I wrote it in contrast to all the bad news about moms out there. If it isn’t bad news, it’s so passive that you wonder does the poor woman have a spine at all. That’s not motherhood either. That’s an idealized person who never existed.

From my years of observation and experience in rearing children and I have helped raised many who were not my own. I find that children will test you. They aren’t going to respect a person who doesn’t enforce ground rules of what they can and can’t do. If you tell them to clean their room and two days later it’s still not clean.  That says loud and clear they don’t respect your words. You have time enough to be their friend when they are adults. Until then, they must be taught that when you speak you aren’t playing with them. Don’t go ahead and clean the room because it’s easier than standing over them making them do it while they cry you don’t love them. You’re being cruel to them. Yes, those are hard words for any mother to hear but for the child’s benefit. Grit your teeth and bear them and make them clean that room. They will thank you for it years later.

I think I have lots of grounds to give advice on this subject for I’ve reared some very fine young people who turned into: a doctor, a lawyer, an eye doctor, a pharmacist, a psychiatrist, a nurse, a minister, a parole officer, and even one is a banker not to mention those in the military and other positions like managers and such. All this happened because I didn’t let up off of them when they didn’t want to do what they needed to do. There was 21 of them in all and only two were my own.


About unholypursuit

A. White, an award winning former librarian, who is also a long time member of Romantic Time and Publisher's Weekly. A. White has been writing for over fifteen years. She took classes in creative writing in college, specializing in ancient myths and legends. and later at a local community center while living in Chicago. In college she won the national contest to verbally list every country in the world, it's capital and ingenious language. Her works are mainly horror, fantasy, extreme, and sci-fi as well as, as some may says, "the truly strange predicament and puzzling." Books that I've written are "Clash with the Immortals, and eleven others which are part of the "Unholy Pursuit saga,". She has been working on the Chronicles since 2007. She wished to complete them all before introducing them to public so the readers wouldn't have to for the continuation to be written. The ideas of the book come from classic literature such as whose work greatly influence the world world such as Homer, Sophocles, Herodotus, Euripides, Socrates, Hippocrates, Aristophanes, Plato, Aristotle and many more. The "Book of Enoch" influenced the usage of Azazael as a main character and love interest. I created the primary main character from the Chronicle of Saints. I wanted to show them as real flesh and blood with thoughts, desires and yearning as any human. Not as they are so often depicted. So I created one of my own to show her as a real human that everyone can relate to.
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8 Responses to Is 25 Things Moms Hope Don’t Happen for the Holidays somewhat like “Bad Moms”?

  1. Barry says:

    After reading two of your other books I read this one. I liked it. I like the witticism of the book. You may not be aware but a great deal of men and women have the same opinion as your book regarding the roles of masculine and feminine in our society.

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  2. James Emerson says:

    Thanks for writing of a bygone era and sharing memorable things. The dialogue exchanged between mother and daughter reminds me of my childhood. The age when things were innocent and new and all the grime of life hadn’t tainted your outlooks of things.

    The short novella brought a smile to my face. 🙂

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  3. Perry says:

    Just wanna say on few general things. The book is funny.


  4. Hildred says:

    I love this novella, I found it funny.


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