Real Friends Don’t Mind. Acquaintances and friends are not the same.~ by Amanda Stevens

Real Friends Don’t Mind by Amanda Stevens

Sometimes one of you all post a reply to something that makes me think deeper on many things. She didn’t give it a title. I named it from the contents. For those who don’t know what we are talking about here is the link

Friends and Politic don’t mix
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In the company of acquaintances, no, it doesn’t mix but in the company of real friends it does and can mix. It can be discussed. Real friends can talk about anything and remain friends. If someone think less of you for speaking on delicate topics then they were never your friend to lose.

Real friends do not ask nor demand that you bend your belief and opinions to match theirs. Acquaintances do. It’s acquaintances, who are merely letting the thoughts they already harbored about you come through when you disagree with them. It hasn’t just developed. It was already there. They’re merely using your opinion or the topic as an avenue to let it surface. You can’t lose that you never had.

It’s acquaintances whom you must be perfect for or at least their idea of perfect. Not real friends.

A real friend can learn the worst thing there’s to know about you and do not withhold their friendship. There’s a big difference between a friend and an acquaintance. When troubles come acquaintances and fair weather friends are gone. They don’t know you anymore. But a real friend stick by your side in rain or sunshine.

Those who truly matters in your life don’t mind if your opinions and ideas aren’t a parrot of their owns. It’s those who don’t matter are the ones who care about such things.

About unholypursuit

A. White, a former librarian who is also long time member of Romantic Time and Publisher's Weekly. A. White has been writing for over fifteen years. She took classes in creative writing in college, specializing in ancient myths and legends. and at a local community center while living in Chicago. In college she won the national contest to verbally list every country in the world, it's capital and ingenious language. Her works are mainly horror, fantasy, extreme, and sci-fi as well as, as some may says, "the truly strange predicament and puzzling." Books that I've written are "Clash with the Immortals, and eleven others which are part of the "Unholy Pursuit saga,". She has been working on the Chronicles since 2007. She wished to complete them all before introducing them to public so the readers wouldn't have to for the continuation to be written. The ideas of the book come from classic literature such as whose work greatly influence the world world such as Homer, Sophocles, Herodotus, Euripides, Socrates, Hippocrates, Aristophanes, Plato, Aristotle and many more. The "Book of Enoch" influenced the usage of Azazael as a main character and love interest. I created the primary main character from the Chronicle of Saints. I wanted to show them as real flesh and blood with thoughts, desires and yearning as any human. Not as they are so often depicted. So I created one of my own to show her as a real human that everyone can relate to.
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6 Responses to Real Friends Don’t Mind. Acquaintances and friends are not the same.~ by Amanda Stevens

  1. It all depends upon the type of friendship you and the individual have. Some friendships can weather anything, others can not. Some friends are more sensitive than others. You have to consider their sensitivity before venturing on a subject. It doesn’t always mean the sensitive one is any less of a friend than the hard core one you go to help you hide a body. (Just kidding.) They have different ways of showing it.

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  2. Flo says:

    So true!

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  3. Nettle says:

    The post is right. Real friends don’t mine hearing the truth or even your opinion.

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  4. Ann says:

    I am referring to the post I answered earlier about the fake people. Remember young folks, you can always tell a faker by what they swear they are too sensitive to withstand.

    On Mon, Aug 6, 2018 at 5:03 PM,

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