The Unintended Gift.
When looking at things from an asymmetrical view you realize and come to understood that those who hurt you gave you significant empowerment, an endowments that no loving, caring individual would’ve ever given you.
Had they known what they were giving you…. they probably wouldn’t have done the deeds to cause the pain.
For example: You don’t know quality, until you experienced the deplorable.
You don’t know graciousness until you experienced the reprehensible.
What’s more, you don’t know harmony until you discover it in your heart to make harmony with everything that occurred. Totally treat them as insignificant as they truly are.
Again, I say the person (s) who hurt you the most, who pushed you to the brink of collapse and broke all your suspicion that all is well and good – made you look at the truth… he or she gave you important blessings that no benevolent individual would ever given you. His or her conduct enlivened you to locate your own internal quality, fill your heart with benevolence and sooth your body and mind by making harmony with all the fixings that were once broken. Mainly yourself. They and the pain they inflict in a way teach us how to live and move one without them.