The volatility of some people can be like looking at a hagfish for the first time. Ugly and slimy. But at least how they look serve a purpose.
The hagfish looks the way nature intended but people’s faces twisted ugly with rage do not.
However, if someone is talking sensible and by sensible, I mean saying things that aren’t oppressive to anyone. Then it couldn’t be hard for people to be willing to think outside of the box and listen. Truly listen. Break down the walls of the conditioning you were reared in. In the long run, we’ll all be better for it.
Being a human you automatically belongs to a herd. You can’t get around that. You were born into it. Just because you’re a sheep doesn’t mean you have to follow the crowd.