“There is no charm equal to tenderness of heart,” said she afterwards to herself. “There is nothing to be compared to it. Warmth and tenderness of heart, with an affectionate, open manner, will beat all the clearness of head in the world, for attraction: I am sure it will.” ~Jane Austen
This holds as true today as it did two hundred years ago. Having a tender heart doesn’t mean being naive. Too often people confuse the two.