Do You Need To Have Lived The Personal Experience To Write About A Topic

Do you need to have lived personal experience to write about some things?

Not necessarily, however, it wouldn’t hurt your story if you are able to write from experience, but without the experience, it’s wise to do in-depth research if you have no experience. Many authors write about Paris having never been there.

What I meant by not necessarily, I don’t mean you have to have been a to a place to write about it.

Writing about people is a lot different than writing about a place or object.

I mean don’t fall into the writing stereotypes traps about the subject matter. Do research and learn the truth about the topic of your story. I’ve notice when writing of ethnic groups almost all modern writers take their theme from movies and videos. Movies are not the best source of information. Reading books on the subject is the best source of information. I’ve also noticed when writing about people, especially African Americans, it’s always based upon urban life, gun or domestic violence or Black men and women behaving immorally. Again, that’s stereotypical. Only a small percentage of Black Americans live in these crime ridden areas portrayed in movies and television shows. The vast majority of African Americans do not live that way even if they live in poverty or the ghetto.

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It’s okay to write about legends, but make sure you make it clear where it come from. To let readers know you are not a bigot, you are simply writing about one.

In literature sometimes stereotypes can’t be avoided. If you’re writing about the past, which is ridden scurrilously with stereotypes; you may have to add some stereotypes to show certain characters’ way of thinking. But don’t overkill it. No, this is not advocating for writing a character nicer than they were in that era. It’s making a story more believable.

But in the famous words of Bessie Smith: “You can’t sing the blues if you haven’t lived them.”

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A. White, an award winning former librarian, who is also a long time member of Romantic Time and Publisher's Weekly. A. White has been writing for over fifteen years. She took classes in creative writing in college, specializing in ancient myths and legends. and later at a local community center while living in Chicago. In college she won the national contest to verbally list every country in the world, it's capital and ingenious language. Her works are mainly horror, fantasy, extreme, and sci-fi as well as, as some may says, "the truly strange predicament and puzzling." Books that I've written are "Clash with the Immortals, and eleven others which are part of the "Unholy Pursuit saga,". She has been working on the Chronicles since 2007. She wished to complete them all before introducing them to public so the readers wouldn't have to for the continuation to be written. The ideas of the book come from classic literature such as whose work greatly influence the world world such as Homer, Sophocles, Herodotus, Euripides, Socrates, Hippocrates, Aristophanes, Plato, Aristotle and many more. The "Book of Enoch" influenced the usage of Azazael as a main character and love interest. I created the primary main character from the Chronicle of Saints. I wanted to show them as real flesh and blood with thoughts, desires and yearning as any human. Not as they are so often depicted. So I created one of my own to show her as a real human that everyone can relate to.
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19 Responses to Do You Need To Have Lived The Personal Experience To Write About A Topic

  1. Yernasia Quorelios says:

    ๐Ÿ’œ Cognitive Dissonance, Confusion and Contradiction EveryOne; basically these 3Cs and 1D are essential for fictional writing โœ๏ธ EveryBody…in Summary it’s factual writing โœ๏ธ that requires research; for example Racism is a part of my 3DLife until I put the Racist Non-“Black” person right by exposing their lack of intellect and emotional intelligence like the “Black” mother in a hospital with a White Supremacist father both waiting to hear what was happening with their children…the end of the story is that that he quit the Ku Klux Klan; then they became firm friends

    …๐Ÿ’›๐Ÿ’š๐Ÿ’™…

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    • It’s a heart warming thought that someone is willing to change the err of their ways. But I hate to say this but I doubt his quitting the KKK lasted when confronted by other KKK members.

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    • Tyre says:

      I want to apologize, I read several of the posts between you two. I hadn’t seen these communications. Now, I understand why this author is doing what he or she is doing with you. They are trying to keep your morale up. Keep you focused on something positive. I didn’t know that.I hope you feel better. I really do.

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      • Yernasia Quorelios says:

        ๐Ÿ’œ Look up what “Cognitive Dissonance” means; then you will understand the comment

        …๐Ÿ’›๐Ÿ’š๐Ÿ’™…

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      • Yernasia Quorelios says:

        ๐Ÿ’œ Apology NOT!!! Necessary but accepted as offered; second THOUGHTS!!! ARE The Perfect Response to Knee-Jerk ReActions

        …๐Ÿ’›๐Ÿ’š๐Ÿ’™…

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  2. Yernasia Quorelios says:

    ๐Ÿ’œ As a Black Man I used to THINK!!! ALL None-Blacks were Racist against ALL Blacks EveryOne; it’s Crystal ๐Ÿ”ฎ Clear Clarity ๐Ÿ”ฎ to Me NOW!!! that it’s simply MisGuided Humans such as those who STIGMATISE!!! Mental Illness and the Mentally Ill…so PREJUDICE IS PREJUDICE!!! no matter whether it’s the race, the state of the mind, sports support, politics, different views about raising kids, Black on Black violence et al EveryBody…ergo, NOW!!! I Understand that None-Blacks ARE Liberal or Supremacist whatever the colour of their skin

    …๐Ÿ’›๐Ÿ’š๐Ÿ’™…

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    • No one could be judged by the color of their skin but the contents of their character. Not all Whites are members of the KKK. Historically speaking, KKK’s are not known for being consistent with their so-called changes. But I do hope you’re right. I hope the person truly changed from their evil ways and point the righteous way for others.

      If this change was true of all who confess to change, then the place we are racially would be much further along in harmony of racial relations. Once people accept an ideology it is very hard to change them.

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      • Tyre says:

        Alma, as intelligent as you are, I know you know good and well this person is lying and haven’t no KKK member met a black woman anywhere and changed. The KKK=Once a hater, always a hater of the black race. This person is not a black man.

        I’m writing you because it’s very hard to get a publisher these days. Please don’t make a publishing company drop you for keep trying to be nice to some people who doesn’t deserve it. You worked too damn hard to allow someone just because you don’t agree with their madness to come in piss all over your work. Even small press doesn’t take on authors if they don’t see potentials in their works.

        Hey, another reason, I want to know what else will go down in this series and do not some one interfering with my learning what else will happen.

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  3. Yernasia Quorelios says:

    ๐Ÿ’œ Thank you for deleting my post; at least you read it and it rubbed you up the wrong way and made my point

    …๐Ÿ’›๐Ÿ’š๐Ÿ’™…

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    • Mind if I asked you a question? Do you know me and I do not know you?

      No, it didn’t rub me the “wrong” way.

      No prejudice is not simply prejudice. Defending one’s self is not being prejudice, No one has obligation to like or be nice to anyone who has repeatedly treated them badly. No one is obligated to kiss the butts of people of who has for centuries gone out of their way to harm, kill and maim all they can. People could try to treat people however that person treat them.

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      • Yernasia Quorelios says:

        ๐Ÿ’œ I agree and, sure, you can ask me anything you like, I “know” you are a human being with a personal history that I “know” nothing about; also I “know” that we are communicating unlike my bitter exes and former friends plus family I am estranged from

        …๐Ÿ’›๐Ÿ’š๐Ÿ’™…

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  4. Brendan says:

    It doesn’t hurt for authors to write by experience. I know it isn’t necessary, but I say stay away from issues when you don’t know a single person of that race. If you still want to write about them I say research real books not pop culture and learn their real way of life.

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  5. Tyre says:

    You can’t do anything about the trash ads WordPress keep putting on your blog but you can stop these weird comments or delete them if an assistant who is letting them through.

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  6. Hadley says:

    I wouldn’t say you needs to have lived the theme of your book but don’t write personal things about people when you haven’t bothered to learn anything about them. Like all the books about slavery in America are written from the point of view of the master and mistress. Very few talk about the enslaved person’s actually thoughts and feelings. All are written in frame of their relations to the enslavers.

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    • Hadley, I believe the reason these books are written this way, as you outlined is that slavery in America allowed the slave no privacy at all. The person was being watch all day and all night. Even other slaves were groomed to watch their fellow bondman. Their entire lives were lived in respond to their enslavers’ whims. Everything had to have the master’s approval. If he was an egoistic man which most people are, given so much absolute power, then he made their lives hell on earth just because he could.

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  7. Yernasia Quorelios says:

    ๐Ÿ’œ I Get called ‘Coconut’ by Racist Black on Black Folk EveryOne; ironic really when None-Blacks treat Me much more kindly than Blacks EveryBody…for the record ‘Coconut’ is a derogatory label used by Black on Black Racists to insult a Black Person who is considered White on The InSide; let that Sink in ALL of YOU!!! Black Supremacist Racists

    …๐Ÿ’›๐Ÿ’š๐Ÿ’™…

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    • Tyre says:

      No, I have never heard of the term coconut being used as a derogatory term. I only know it as a fruit. There are good and bad people in all races. Judge people by their character not by the color of their skin.

      How a person is treated in a society determine a lot in how they behave. White people are not treated the same in America as black people are. Therefore it’s easy to be nice when you aren’t dealing with systematic racism from the cradle to the grave. Think about it. I mean truly think about it. Don’t become like some black people because you have been mistreated by some idiots. All black people are not like that.

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