Mindful You, Mindful Me

Alma asked that I load up this passage from this book.

Mindful you, Mindful me

Rules to live by:

Let Go

Learn to let go of dead relationships. Some one leaving you isn’t the same as experiencing a death. I wish people would quit saying,

“I feel like someone died,” after a

divorce or breakup. The two pains are

nothing alike.

When someone say that, then I know

they’ve never suffered the loss of a

loved one through death. Death leaves

behind a pain that never fully heals.

Time lessen it but doesn’t do away with

it. One can get over a divorce or break

up if they simply accept that the

relationship is over and let go.

  1. Don’t listen to people who put you

down. Ignore them. Live a life that

empowers you, not hinder you. Life is

too short to be constantly engulfed in


  1. It’s said, “Give it time. Time heals

everything.” I say, “Time heals

some things. Not everything. It make

some things easier to live with and

others it do not, and it’s okay if the pain

of the loss of a loved one is still there years later.

  1. Don’t compare yourself to others.

You don’t know if their life is really as

grand as it seems. The only person you

should compare yourself with is the

person you were yesterday, yesteryear.

  1. Stress is the major trigger of many

illnesses. Therefore, don’t worry when

things aren’t going as they should. If

they aren’t life threatening don’t sweat

them. Stay calm for your health’s sake.

It’s okay not to have everything figured

out. Know that in your progressive

time, not someone else’s progress

measure, that you’ll have it all figured out in due time, Believe me–you will.

  1. Only you can make you happy.

Never leave the charge of your

happiness in some else’s hand.

  1. Smile more often. Life is too short not to.


About unholypursuit

A. White, an award winning former librarian, who is also a long time member of Romantic Time and Publisher's Weekly. A. White has been writing for over fifteen years. She took classes in creative writing in college, specializing in ancient myths and legends. and later at a local community center while living in Chicago. In college she won the national contest to verbally list every country in the world, it's capital and ingenious language. Her works are mainly horror, fantasy, extreme, and sci-fi as well as, as some may says, "the truly strange predicament and puzzling." Books that I've written are "Clash with the Immortals, and eleven others which are part of the "Unholy Pursuit saga,". She has been working on the Chronicles since 2007. She wished to complete them all before introducing them to public so the readers wouldn't have to for the continuation to be written. The ideas of the book come from classic literature such as whose work greatly influence the world world such as Homer, Sophocles, Herodotus, Euripides, Socrates, Hippocrates, Aristophanes, Plato, Aristotle and many more. The "Book of Enoch" influenced the usage of Azazael as a main character and love interest. I created the primary main character from the Chronicle of Saints. I wanted to show them as real flesh and blood with thoughts, desires and yearning as any human. Not as they are so often depicted. So I created one of my own to show her as a real human that everyone can relate to.
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4 Responses to Mindful You, Mindful Me

  1. Hadley says:

    Loved it!!! This is the Alma White’s writings I am used to. When will this one be out?

    Liked by 1 person

  2. Tyre says:

    Tell Alma she has a lot or wisdom to share. I am glad the finally sharing it.

    Liked by 1 person

    • I will tell her. Yes, she does have a lot of wisdom to share.
      Yes, she’s wise beyond her years. That’s one of the things that I liked about her when I met her. She isn’t into pettiness.


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